Relationships are based on trust, love and understanding. But, in many cases, after a long time this disappear and the couple argue more and more. They can't understand anymore and feel that everything that the other is making is wrong. This usually happens because the partners have grown tired of each other, there is nothing interesting in the relationship any more, or just one of them decided that they want to be with somebody else. So, how can someone feeling this way break the news for his or her partner?! What are the ways to end relationships in a nice way?
--- Show no interest in her/him anymore. Pretend that you are very busy, you have a lot of work to do and you don't have time to go see her/him today, maybe tomorrow but no for sure. Show her/him that you have more interesting things to do than meeting her/him.
--- Don't call her/him so often like you did before. You'll see that she/he will call you every day to see what are you doing and why are you upset on her/him, but after a while she will see that you don't care about her/him anymore.
--- Lie to her/him. I know this might sound deceiving, but hey, letting go of a relationship while doing all the right way can’t be done. If you tell her/him lies and she/he catches you she/he will definitely go upset. Especially if you say that you are at work and she/he sees you with your friends.
--- Upset her when you dating her/him. Be late and then upset her/him more. Even if she/he is very happy to see you because she/he didn't saw you for a long time make sure that you make only things that you know she/he don't like while you are at meeting with her/him. How to end a relationship in this way? Take this example, look after other women/men when you are with her/him.
Also, if you want to break up, but you can’t tell it directly and don’t want to do all the nasty things mentioned above, you can try to send her a message. You can write break up letters to boyfriend or girlfriend or leave message on the telephone telling her/him that you consider that is no worth to stay together anymore or that you need a break, you miss your old friends with who you go out before meeting her/him. She/he will get a little upset but finally will understand that you don't want to continue anymore and will not have the opportunity to beg and implore you to stay with her.
In a relationship this can happen anytime if you don't know to take care of it, to make always with your partner more and more interesting things to not interfile routine, because you will feel bored one of each other and there aren't many chances to make this work again. But, if this really happens to break up with your partner you have the opportunity to choose on which way you are going to do it.
1 comments:
nice blog., the only thing i hate on break ups is how am i going to start to say "were done".
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